Comparison Syndrome? | Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore India

Shweta is a sincere human being. She’s a trainer herself and she’s one of the people inside my mentoring program ROCK YOUR SPEAKING.

Here’s a part of an email she recently sent me (I am only sending a part):


“One good thing happened after being your Mentee is now I don't compare myself with others or what others are doing doesn't bother me much now. 

I have become more confident.”


WOW! 

I am impressed. 

By the way, hi Shweta. Hope your son is doing very well. 

I will tell you why I am impressed with this improvement of Shweta.

Look, in the world we are living in, we are constantly bombarded with ads. 

This person says X. 

Another person shows Y.

New person promises Z. 

It’s VERY difficult to keep your focus on YOUR goal instead of looking at others. 

Shweta came to a group mentoring call a while ago where I gave this analogy:

Imagine you’re eating at a restaurant. If you’re in LOVE with the food on your dish, you will enjoy it fully. 

However, if you don’t fully love the food on your plate, you will start looking at what others are eating. You will create a desire for THEIR food.

“I wish I could take a bit from that Pakoda."
"I wish I could take a scoop of her ice cream.”
"That Pasta looks so yummy!"

That’s how life is. 

If you’re constantly looking at other people’s goals, facebook photos, lifestyle, recognition...it’s probably because you’re not very happy with YOUR life.

Fix THAT.

When you’re happy with your life, you finish your food on your plate. And then feed others from the extra you’ve got. That's called ABUNDANCE.


Makes sense?

Like that analogy, by the way?

Good. 

Then be like Shweta and stop comparing yourself with others. 

There’s only ONE you! 

Be the BEST you. :- ) 

- Bishal “Analogy” Sarkar

 

About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “THE KING OF CONFIDENCE”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “Present like a Champ Boot Camp” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals, youth groups, corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the excellence within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his public speaking courses & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore, call us on +91-88803-61526.

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